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Thursday, December 31, 2015

The Magic of a New Year's Eve Kiss

It's that time of year again, and the countdown will soon begin. A new year is around the corner, with many hopes for all of the good things that it will bring. On New Year's Eve, many people choose to go out and live it up, and many people choose to stay in and have a quiet evening watching the New York City ball drop. Having lived in New York City, I can honestly say that watching the ball drop in person is quite a spectacular experience. New York City has a way of celebrating the New Year unlike any other place. The streets are filled with people, where you can barely walk. Limousines drive past you, with some women even taking their shirts off and sticking their bodies outside of the top of the limos. Confetti is flying everywhere, balloons, and all sorts of streamers pour out of the windows from the buildings. It's quite an experience when you see all of this happen live and in person.

Whether you're living in New York, Los Angeles, or anywhere else in the world, whether you're going out and living it up, enjoying a big elaborate party, or if you're staying in, and keeping it low-key, the New Year means a lot to everyone. Many times it takes people something like a new year for them to think, and reminisce about the past year, and realize all of the things that they've accomplished and achieved, as well as all of the things that they hadn't. People start to think of the fact that yet another year has passed them by, and how much more they still have to achieve in their lives to get to where they want to be. Many times people think of the mistakes that they've made throughout the past year, and in hoping not to make the same mistakes, they make New Year's resolutions. The types of resolutions that people make all depend on the person, and whether or not they keep those resolutions is up to them.

When it comes to love, romance, and relationships, many people have found the person that they feel destined to be with, and many people are still single, and alone on the New Year. We all desire to have that special New Year's kiss, and if we don't, then we're missing that romantic, passionate side to us, or possibly we've lost that feeling, having lacked it for so long. It's important to remember that being single on the New Year is something that most people have experienced, and whether or not they have a partner right now, I'm sure that they can relate to what it feels like to be alone on any holiday, as well as the New Year. There's something very special about a New Year's Eve kiss. In case you don't know what I'm talking about, let me explain. A New Year's Eve kiss is powerful unlike any other kiss. There are three kisses that I find to be the most powerful of all of the kisses in the world.

The three kisses are:

1. The first kiss that you have with someone that you like or love.

2. A New Year's eve kiss.

3. The kiss that you have on your wedding day.

Those three kisses can be so powerful that they can be remembered throughout your entire journey in life, as opposed to those every day pecks that you get from your partner, or partner to be. It's important that if you have someone that you love in your life right now, that you make sure to kiss them right at the stroke of midnight. A New Year's Eve kiss is one of the most romantic kisses out of all of the three kisses. I can't tell you exactly why it's such a romantic kiss, or why it has the power to be such a romantic kiss. However, I can tell you that it likely has something to do with starting anew, having a fresh, clean slate, the sense of purity, brand-new beginning's, replenishing and rejuvenating love, and it can be quite magical if it's with the right person.

It's true that any old kiss won't do. You can't just give your kisses away to anyone, and especially, not on the New Year. I'm the type of girl that would rather stay inside, and be alone on any holiday, including the New Year, than be out and about with the wrong person or the wrong crowd. When it comes to dating someone, it's better not even to accept a date with someone, unless you truly have that magical feeling. Having said that, if New Year's Eve is coming around, and you're still unsure of your feelings for the person that you're dating, it's better not to kiss them on this magical night, and therefore, it's better not to go out with them if you ask me. That's just my humble, little opinion. To each their own, and this is not exactly my relationship advice, as I would normally give, but it's merely me speaking from my heart.

There's something truly magical about any first kiss, but if your first kiss is on New Year's Eve, it could be spectacular. Think of the scene from the movie "When Harry Met Sally." Sure, that wasn't their first kiss, but I'm sure that you can get the idea of what that magic should feel like. Whether you're single or in a relationship, we all want to have that special, magical feeling, and we all hope that our partner will kiss us at the stroke of midnight. Whether you're in a relationship or married even, that magic is important for everyone to experience, and the longer that we're with our partners, we hope that it still exists.

The magic that you feel when your partner kisses you should be the type of magic that you can see lasting a lifetime. If you're the type that likes to go out and party on New Year's Eve, then have fun and party away, but remember, don't kiss any frogs, and don't let yourself go to just anyone. My advice would be to be picky, and care about that special kiss. To those that are still single, with hopes in finding their one and only, whether it's this year, next year, or maybe the year after, etc., that magical kiss exists for you, and your true love still awaits you. Remember, it's better to be alone than with the wrong person, and don't waste that special kiss on someone that you're really not all that into. You'll end up going home at the end of the night, feeling alone just the same. Keep your kiss sacred, special, and don't let just anyone enjoy that magical moment with you if you're not really feeling it. Just think, the person that you'll likely end up with is somewhere out there going through the same emotions that you are right now. It's important that all of the singles out there have faith, and stay optimistic in finding true love.  

Wishing everyone a happy, healthy, prosperous, and beautiful new year ahead with hopes that everyone find their true love soon, and get to enjoy that special New Year's Eve kiss.