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Thursday, December 24, 2015

Naughty but Nice

Things can get pretty boring when someone is nice and sweet all of the time, but lacks any spice, excitement, or spontaneity. Being predictable is a great thing when it comes to stability, security, and knowing that your partner loves you. But, when it comes to being predictable in a romantic way, or even in the bedroom, things can end up becoming pretty boring or dull. When you're in an exclusive relationship or married, there are always things that people can and should do in order to keep things spicy in the bedroom. However, it's not just important to keep things spicy when it comes to intimacy, but it's also important to romance one another outside of the bedroom. 

Now that the holiday season is here, many people that are in relationships or married have many opportunities to romance their partner. Of course, romancing your partner is something that should be done continuously, and throughout your relationship. However, there's something special about the holidays when it comes to romance. During the holiday season, or during any time of celebration, putting in a little extra effort into romancing your partner can go a long way.

I've never been a big fan of people that celebrate two holidays in one day. In other words, if you propose to me on Valentine's Day, I would secretly despise it. I know, I know, I'm a difficult person. But, like I've said before, you've gotta keep it real in relationships. It's just not as exciting to celebrate two holidays in one day. Finding reasons to celebrate moments, memories, and holidays, etc., is something that keeps relationships exciting, romantic, and if you're lucky, full of surprises.

Like I said before, being predictable isn't the best thing when it comes to romance. Some people would disagree, but I beg to differ. Many times being romantic is all about surprise and being spontaneous. Don't get me wrong, being spontaneous doesn't mean that you don't plan things, because many times surprises take effort and a good amount of planning, in order to get the full effect.

When it comes to being naughty but nice, it's important to understand that excitement in relationships is good. Naughty can mean many things from being kinky, provoking, mischievous, enticing, seducing, and much more. Of course, there's good naughty and bad naughty. Just like when people say that someone is so evil that they're like the devil, as opposed to someone that says, "You little devil." The latter would be said towards something that was cute, but mischievous. Cute but mischievous is exactly what I'd consider to be "good naughty." Remember, being naughty can be a good thing, and especially when you're the predictable type, and the type of person that's nice and sweet throughout the year. 

Wishing everyone a very happy holiday season, and a beautiful new year ahead!

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