Are you tired of dating? Does it seem like you endlessly go out, trying to find the right girl or guy? Maybe you're the social butterfly that enjoys going out night after night, trying to pick up on girls/get picked up on by guys. Are you into the bar scene? I'm still unsure about what the bar scene is, to be honest with you. When I hear people talk about the "bar scene," I think of it as a place where people talk, flirt, get drunk, exchange numbers, and usually never end up being together long term, because "they met at a bar." Don't get me wrong, I've actually met someone who is married now that met her spouse at a bar. So it does happen, it's just not where I imagine meeting my future spouse. Does it really matter where you meet your future spouse? Um, well... It does to me!
This brings me to the point of "are we being too picky?" So we're old enough now and have figured out what we want, at least approximately, in our future spouse. Some things we're willing to put up with and some things were just not. Where do we draw the line as far as what were okay with and what we're not? Let's call them red flags, since most of us know the term. Red flags are like warning signs. You should never sweep a red flag under the rug. I used to put up with a few red flags and then peace out. Actually, I would see the red flags, three or more of them even, and I still wouldn't peace out, at first. As time went on, I realized that red flags don't go away and you have to live with those things that bother you forever, if you stay with this person. It actually took me quite a while before telling myself that a few red flags were okay, but any more than three, then it's like baseball, and you're out of there! At this point in my life, I can honestly say that one red flag is one too many.