Communication In The Bedroom
When it comes to intimacy in a relationship, it doesn't matter the duration of the relationship, when it comes to knowing how to please your partner, unless you have great communication. Having great communication is imperative in a healthy, happy relationship. This goes for inside and outside of the bedroom. When it comes to inside of the bedroom, like I said, it doesn't matter how long you've been together, but you should have a comfort level and feel free to tell your partner what you like and don't like, and that should be reciprocated by your partner. Having Great intimacy is something that can keep a marriage happy, through the roughest of times. don't get me wrong, it's not the only thing that will keep a marriage happy, but it sure will help. So now that you know the importance of having great communication inside and outside of the bedroom, you should still be aware that your partner doesn't know exactly what you're thinking, but the more you communicate with your lover, and express yourself, The more that they'll understand what you like or don't like. It's important to voice your opinion in every aspect of your relationship.
We're Not All The Same
Every Woman and man is unique in the fact that they don't all want to be please in the same manner. You can't just assume that your partner will like how you please them, because you think of yourself as a good lover. It's about time you get off of your high horse, and come back down to reality, and recognize that every person is different and has a different soul, mind, and body. It's important to embrace your partner and love them the way that they need to be loved as much as you can. I'm not saying that your partner should be demanding and put you down for the way that you try to please them. I merely saying that I believe in having great communication and having the freedom to express yourself to your partner, letting them know what you like and don't like. You can actually have a cute, little discussion about it. If your intentions are to have eventually get married, and you're in a relationship right now, it's imperative that you learn how to please each other (that is, if you're being intimate before marriage). The main point is that you understand that your partner is unique and should be treated as such.