Sometimes it's hard to know whether you're truly in love with someone or you're just so used to being with them. Sometimes people spend so much time with each other by dating or being in a relationship, that they start wondering if they're in love with them, or just used to them. I believe that true love happens within time and as you grow old together. When you spend so much time with someone, you get to know them really well. It's true that you get used to someone, when you've been with them for a long time. This is one reason why couples should always put effort into keeping a relationship spicy, romantic, and alive.
If you make your relationship exciting and fun, you'll have a better chance of keeping that chemistry and fire alive for the long term. When you spend a lot of time with someone and you start to get used to them, there are times when they might do things that irritate or annoy you. Believe it or not, sometimes when it's true love, we may still get annoyed by the other person. Those feelings are normal and bound to happen. Here are 10 ways to know if you're just used to someone and you're only with them because of it or if you're truly in love with them.
The list: (keep in mind, that if it says "true love or just used to them," it can be either one, depending on the situation and the person.
1. They're your first thought when you wake up and your last thought before going to sleep.
(true love)
2. You still get butterflies in your stomach when you think of them or while you're spending quality time with them. You love and adore all of the cute little things that they do.
(true love)
3. You feel comfortable with each other. You can be yourself with them.
(true love or just used to them)
4. You're attracted to each other and have chemistry. The passion and fire is alive.
(true love)
5. The thought of being intimate with anyone else or them being intimate with anyone else makes you sick.
(true love or just used to them)
6. You can imagine building a future with them and growing old together.
(true love)
7. You always think of or try to do sweet things that will make them happy.
(true love)
8. You want to better each other and help each other succeed in life.
(true love or just used to them)
9. If you had two tickets to an event, concert, or something fun, you'd ask them first, before asking anyone else. You want to experience and share fun things with them.
(true love)
10. You call them everyday.
(true love or just used to them)
11. You enjoy spending time with them. It doesn't feel like a chore or because you have to, but because you want to.
(true love)
12. You desire commitment with them. You don't want to date anyone else and you don't want them to date anyone else either. You don't want to share them with anyone other than family and friends.
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