When it comes to finding someone that will be a partner, and one that you can build a life with, most of us are looking for that perfect match. Within that perfect match, we usually tend to look for someone that has many qualities that we'll find appealing. One of those qualities that many times gets overlooked by a person's exterior beauty is one of the most important qualities. The quality of being a good person.
Being a good person is not only something to look for when looking for your best possible match, but it's something that should be on everyone's must-have list. You should want someone that's going to be kind. Someone that will be kind, not only to you, but to themselves, to strangers, to neighbours, and to people in need and less fortunate. When it gets to a certain point, and you meet each other's families, you want to be with someone that will be kind to your family, and to your children if you have any. For many of us, we'd like to know that a person is good to their own family, as well as our own.
Kindness is an essential quality when it comes to how we act, and when it comes to something we look for in a partner in life. Kindness and being a good person go hand-in-hand. I personally find it to be either a red flag or just a seriously big turn off when I see that someone I start dating isn't kind to other people like waiters, workers, and people that are in need and less fortunate. In retrospect, when someone does the opposite and shows kindness and love towards total strangers, people that serve them, waitresses, waiters, workers, and that are giving to people in need, they get golden stars that go straight to my heart.
When someone is truly kind, and displays kindness to others without hoping to gain from it in any way, it can be a truly beautiful thing. We should all strive to find a partner in life that displays a healthy balance between being beautiful on the inside and on the outside. For me personally, and I know that many would agree, people can seem very beautiful and incredibly gorgeous on the outside, and in their appearance. Meanwhile, as soon as they open their mouth to speak or display acts of negativity or anything of the sort, I start to perceive them as an ugly person on the inside, and for some reason it affects their beauty on the outside as well.
I've even seen people that over time, and over many years have grown to be more beautiful with age, because they're beautiful on the inside. I'm sure that they probably take good care of themselves as well, and live a predominantly healthy lifestyle to some extent. But either way, my point is that many times people that do bad things, are cruel to others, and lead their lives in a negative manner in different ways tend to become ugly on the outside, and in their appearance.
I've seen people that do bad things to others, hurt people, abuse others, and take advantage of them to the point where they'll literally deteriorate at a younger age. Having said that, although they might've been beautiful or handsome upon the moment we met, they became so severely ugly on the inside, that I can honestly say that their ugliness from their souls exuded to their exterior. We should all strive to be better people. When it comes to finding the love of your life, and the person that you'll be able to share your life and dreams with, make sure that kindness is one of the factors, and that being a good person is something that you look for and embrace when in your search for true love.