Having and maintaining a happy life is something that we all strive for. We all want to do what makes us feel good and alive. Many times we take wrong paths that mislead us or in which we thought might have initially been the right direction, yet we later come to the conclusion that they weren't. This is why we need to think clearly, and carefully before making any big decisions in life, and try to see what's forthcoming down the line. We need to consider all possible consequences when we choose to do things in life. We need to choose good over evil, healthy versus unhealthy, and take the high road so to speak at times when temptation could lead us astray. Despite the duration or hardship of the right path, we still should choose it over the easier and less resilient.
Having inner peace is something that we all long for. We all hope to achieve it on a level that will bring about happiness, as well as provide a better, and more peaceful way of life. In order to attain inner peace and maintain it to an extent in which we'll feel less internal struggle and torment, we must follow certain steps. These ways that I'm about to list are ways that we can all benefit in life for the greater good. We should all instill them into our mindsets so that we'll truly live a more peaceful and satisfied existence. Read these steps, and when in doubt, refer back to them as a reminder, until they feel like second nature to you. Make these steps a new way of thinking, and believe that you can change for the better, despite your age, your previous pattern of thinking, or your situation. Get a grasp on your emotions, and let light and goodness take over.
1. Self Control:
We can only control our own actions in life, so it's important to think before we act. When you suspect that something will have bad consequences later on or that the outcome of a decision that you're debating might lead you astray or to harm's way, don't do it, and control yourself. Choose to be good, to do good, and to make wise choices. Only let go when you feel it's safe. When in doubt, control yourself. Words can cause just as much, if not more pain than actions at times, so control your words, and watch what you say.
Having balance in all aspects of your life is essential towards finding inner peace. Feeling centered starts with being centered. Make time for everything that's important to you, and do so wholeheartedly.
3. Healthy Lifestyle:
Eat healthy and exercise. Turn a healthy diet into a healthy lifestyle. Don't eliminate food or drinks that you love or crave. Moderation is the key to life. Indulge without overindulging. Don't be lazy on a regular basis. Maintain a healthy and active lifestyle. Make routines that are healthy choices, and change them up a bit to keep them exciting. When you get bored of the same old routine, don't quit it, but change it for the better or alternate your routine with another activity. Stay active, but give yourself a break when needed. Remove toxic people and things from your life, your mind, and your body.
4. Surround Yourself With Good People:
Choose your friends wisely. Avoid bringing toxic people into your life, and definitely rid yourself of toxic relationships. Choosing to be happy is everything when it comes to having peace of mind. Happiness is a choice, and surrounding yourself with happy people can make you a happier person. Don't allow others to bring you down in life with their negative ways or thinking.
Love is the most powerful thing in the world. Love all people, treat all in a loving manner, and accept people for who they are. Accept what you cannot change, and love what is. There's a warmth to an embrace, so hug often, and love plenty.
6. Beach, breathe, and meditation:
Finding the beauty in nature is imperative in attaining inner peace. Appreciating the beauty in the world around you can provide the most ultimate high. A walk by the beach, your feet in the sand, and the ocean's water splashing up against your skin can do wonders. Absorb the energy of the ocean, and embrace it's touch. Breathe in life and goodness. Release your energy, step out of your shell, and let light inside of your heart. Let the waves of the ocean and the singing of the birds be the only noise that you hear. Give in to moments of quiet, the silence of your own thoughts, and your worries will become less. When anger arises in you, take a deep breath, slowly exhale, and release your anger, and it will lighten.
7. Kill them with kindness:
Be kind to all people. When others are cruel, it's out of your hands, and you can't control those types, or their actions. But, you can control yourself, your actions, and your response. Kill them with kindness, and then you will find peace. They may eventually find peace as well when you do so.
Concentrate on all of the good things that you have in your life, as opposed to what you don't. Be thankful for what you have and what you receive. Concentrate on how fortunate you are for all that you are, and all that God has given you.